I was meaning that I had used 'lovely' and 'loved' in the same sentence - it was the 'lovely' that I would have changed as the 'loved' is patently obvious
. I know what you mean about your Zeff finding it all too much bother. We were watching a dog display with Shadow once and she would have had her chin in her hands if she could and been saying 'but what's the point?? all that effort and no treat!' The look on her face was a picture!